In this first step it is all about questions.

The questions you have to ask yourself first are:

• Why is my life the way it is?
• Is there a reason, that I do not see a chance to change it?

Maybe your answer is one of the following:

• I have to consider special circumstances, that other people do not know.
• I don’t have a choice, because I have to pay my bills and take care of my duties.
• I have to wait until something happens. Then I will have more time ore more possibilities.
• I don’t believe, I can really change anything, because the others won’t let me change it.